Don’t just touch her skin—bring all of your awareness and feeling to your fingers as they caress her. Don’t just kiss her—allow your lips and tongue to sense her mouth fully.

Mind-blowing, soul-healing, life-changing sex begins with an intentional, detailed preparation to create something special for both of you. And yes, there is an art to it. How you prepare yourself and your lover for sex is as important as the sex itself, if not more so. It is in this meticulous space of creation that your devotion and generosity ca