
The Rational Male

Whatever you cannot say ‘No’ to is your master and makes you it’s slave.
Rollo Tomassi • The Rational Male
Regardless, whatever your reasons, women should only ever be a compliment to a man’s life, never the focus of it. When you start living for a woman you become that woman. Never again compromise your own identity to receive the ever-changing approval she grants you. You have to be the prize at all times, not just while you’re single. In fact, it’s i
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At no other phase in a woman’s life will she enjoy more affirmation or legitimate male attention, more zealously applied for her sexual approval than this brief stretch. Once past the apex, every effort she spends on generating male arousal cues will be in an attempt to recapture the experiences of this phase. Every post-apex, pre-Wall (24 to 30) c
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By age 36, the average man has reached his own relative SMV apex. It’s at this phase that his sexual / social / professional appeal has reached maturity. Assuming he’s maximized as much of his potential as possible, it’s at this stage that women’s hypergamous directives will find him the most acceptable for her long-term investment. He’s young enou
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You are utterly powerless in this situation. Never buy a home with a girlfriend, never sign a rental lease with a girlfriend. Never agree to move into her home and absolutely never move a woman into your own established living arrangement.
Rollo Tomassi • The Rational Male
family, etc. are common – they’re expected. They are only appreciated in their absence, in their lack and in their failing.
Rollo Tomassi • The Rational Male
At what point do you stop? How old are you? If you’re under 30 stay in the game. If you’re over 30, stay in the game, but cool things off occasionally – the only time a man should even contemplate monogamy is after experiencing abundance.
Rollo Tomassi • The Rational Male
Shoot the arrow, paint the target around it, and you’ll always get a bullseye.
Rollo Tomassi • The Rational Male
the essence of plate theory is that a man is as confident and valuable as his options. This is the essence of the abundance mindset – confidence is derived from options.