
The Power of Positive Self-Talk

So when you make mistakes or fall short of your expectations, you can throw away that rawhide whip and instead throw a cozy blanket of compassion around your shoulders. You will be more motivated to learn, grow, and make the much-needed changes in your life, while also having more clarity to see where you are now and where you’d like to go next. Yo
... See moreKristin Neff • Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself

When we recognize we’ve made a mistake, self-kindness means that we’re understanding and accepting, encouraging ourselves to do better next time. When we get bad news or smash head-on into life’s problems, we actively open our hearts and allow ourselves to be emotionally moved by our own pain. We stop to say, “This is really difficult. How can I ca
... See moreKristin Neff • Fierce Self-Compassion: How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power, and Thrive
An important aspect of self-compassion is to be able to empathically hold both parts of ourselves—the self that regrets a past action and the self that took the action in the first place.
Marshall B. Rosenberg • Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships (Nonviolent Communication Guides)
What exactly is it you're feeling? Are you judging yourself too harshly? Is there anything you're blaming yourself for and why?