However much these differences may be exaggerated, there is clearly some truth to what both scientists and everyday experience tell us, that men tend to more frequently objectify women’s bodies and fantasize about sex for its own sake, while women more commonly tend to prefer sex in the context of an emotional relationship and value a man’s

In intimacy, most men are attracted to open with a lover’s radiance and into-the-body-inviting energy. Most women are attracted to open with a lover’s depth of feeling and strength of conscious presence. This is true while making love and also in the middle of an intimate conflict.

The Intelligence Paradox There’s a popular misconception that women find intelligent men more attractive. Attractive for long-term security and dependability as a provider? Yes. Are they arousing as a Hypergamous sexual prospect? No. The Feminine social order likes to promote the “intelligence is sexy” meme to have better-prepared providers