the “let them” theory
One of the biggest shifts we can make in our in our lives is realizing this fundamental truth: We’re all seeing life through the lens of our own conditioning. People rarely react to you—they’re reacting to their past and their fears. The more you understand this, the less personally you’ll take their behavior.
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mynavatarinstagram.comA tremendous step forward, albeit a very difficult one, is for people who are in relationship with the addict not to take his behaviours personally. This is one of the hardest challenges for human beings—and that is precisely why it’s a core teaching in many wisdom traditions. The addict doesn’t engage in his habits out of a desire to betray or
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Don’t LOSE yourself in the process of trying to “save them 👇🏼
😫Have you ever desperately wanted someone to change and grow to their potential?
🥺You believed they could thrive
🥺You saw their strength
🥺You wished they saw it too... See more
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