the lemon loaf theory of relationships
The kindest thing you can do for yourself is let people leave when they want to go. No chasing. No begging. No convincing them of your worth.
Let it hurt. Feel the rejection. Then let it heal.
When you stop forcing people to choose you, you make space for people who actually want to be there. People who don’t need to be... See more
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Accepting who you are doesn’t mean you should stay in situations that hurt you. I advise people, both strangers and close friends, to leave relationships when I think their care is unreciprocated or they clearly are unfulfilled. I think that if you find yourself consistently directing your love towards places or people that don’t love you back, you... See more