Out of all the Sensitive Intuitives (INFJ, INFP, ENFJ or ENFP), it’s my opinion that the INFJ is the most vulnerable to perfectionism.

At any given moment, I’m collecting information on a variety of topics that I’ll make decisions on in the future. The things that are the most important to me are the things that I’m talking about the least. So it often does happen that when I announce a big decision, it seems to come

They have most likely been told throughout their life that they’re “too sensitive” or that they’re “overreacting” when in truth, they are expressing exactly how they feel to the most accurate degree.

we can use our laser focus to ruthlessly prioritize what’s important. For example, what’s more important: Taking 30 minutes to craft the perfect first sentence or taking one hour and writing five decent, if sloppy, pages? Any INFJ who is actually an INFJ will immediately see the difference and where priorities should lay.

attached to people, animals, and even inanimate objects, in a short period of time. They also have intense emotional reactions to things

The argument is that if writers can’t force themselves to grow this thick skin, then they’re not cut out to be writers. This is blatantly false. Most of the highly creative writers on this planet, living and dead, are Sensitive Intuitives and Sensitive Intuitives are so extremely attuned to emotional energy that harsh, aggressive, competitive

This means that when we’re in love with something, we’re really in love with it. Like, head over heels in love. For the INFJ writer, that’s writing. We zoom in quickly on what we’re looking for, sniff out the writers who move us deeply on the emotional level, read all of their stuff or read one of their masterpieces over and over, and then down the

For years I thought something was wrong with me. I assumed I had a serious problem with motivation.

But perfectionism isn’t the only reason we have difficulty starting. The other side of the problem is self-doubt.