When I write a blog post, and no one comments on it, shares it on social media, or writes to me about it, I could conclude that I wrote a “bad post” and start listening to inner critic tapes that I’m not good at what I do. That would be the old paradigm: thinking the feedback tells me about me. In the new paradigm, I can see that the feedback tells

“Arguing online feels like an exercise in futility. Rules of debate don’t work well within a medium without limits.”