One of the reasons relationships fail is because we do have unrealistic expectations going into them, fueled by myths about “the one” true love who’s going to be our “everything.” Polyamorous people recognize this fallacy and respect each person’s capabilities and limits when it comes to what they can give. Instead of attempting to change someone,

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So the question is not, "what are the rules of polyamory?" but rather "what type of relationship works for me/us?" To that end, consider the following questions to ask yourself and, if you have a partner(s), discuss with him, her or them. And keep in mind that these questions should be revisited during your regular relationship check-ins over time,

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