
The Dreaming Way: Courting the Wisdom of Dreams

Active receptivity, by its very nature, requires you to get comfortable not knowing where the dream will lead. Instead, you are practising at allowing yourself to be led.
Toko-pa Turner • The Dreaming Way: Courting the Wisdom of Dreams
Much like creating an invitational field with children, when we refrain from imposing our wants or desires onto them, they often surprise us by coming to their own good conclusions.
Toko-pa Turner • The Dreaming Way: Courting the Wisdom of Dreams
A good marriage is kept alive by seeing the other in a constantly changing light rather than settling into a single impression.
Toko-pa Turner • The Dreaming Way: Courting the Wisdom of Dreams
approaching the symbols in my dreams wasn’t about getting what I want, but about discovering how I can be of service to that which I love.
Toko-pa Turner • The Dreaming Way: Courting the Wisdom of Dreams
The actions taken in a dream are also symbols. Whether running is a metaphor for avoidance, or snuggling is symbolic of embracing something unusual, actions show you what movements, decisions, and strategies are at play in the issue at hand.
Toko-pa Turner • The Dreaming Way: Courting the Wisdom of Dreams
Actions may meet with resistance or momentum, or bring about sudden change, depending on the other elements in your dream ecology.
Toko-pa Turner • The Dreaming Way: Courting the Wisdom of Dreams
we are so often dismissive of our feelings, overriding them with conventional behaviour.
Toko-pa Turner • The Dreaming Way: Courting the Wisdom of Dreams
Make note of what characteristics your setting has, what vibe it gives off, how it smells or sounds, how you feel in this place, and if it reminds you of anywhere you’ve been before.
Toko-pa Turner • The Dreaming Way: Courting the Wisdom of Dreams
Does revisiting it make you feel nourished, comfortable, safe, warm? Or does it bring up discomfort, longing, despair? How do those conditions relate to what’s happening for you right now?