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The Art of Asking: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help
- There's really no honor in proving that you can carry the entire load on your own shoulders. And...it's lonely
from The Art of Asking: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help by Amanda Palmer
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- And when you’re afraid of someone’s judgment, you can’t connect with them. You’re too preoccupied with the task of impressing them.
from The Art of Asking: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help by Amanda Palmer
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- From what I've seen, it isn't so much the act of asking that paralyzes us--it's what lies beneath: the fear of being vulnerable, the fear of rejection, the fear of looking needy or weak. The fear of being seen as a burdensome member of the community instead of a productive one. It points, fundamentally, to our separation from one another.
from The Art of Asking: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help by Amanda Palmer
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- In both the art and the business worlds, the difference between the amateurs and the professionals is simple: The professionals know they’re winging it. The amateurs pretend they’re not.
from The Art of Asking: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help by Amanda Palmer
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- “Asking for help with shame says: You have the power over me. Asking with condescension says: I have the power over you. But asking for help with gratitude says: We have the power to help each other.”
from The Art of Asking: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help by Amanda Palmer
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- American culture in particular has instilled in us the bizarre notion that to ask for help amounts to an admission of failure. But some of the most powerful, successful, admired people in the world seem, to me, to have something in common: they ask constantly, creatively, compassionately, and gracefully. And to be sure: when you ask, there’s always... See more
from The Art of Asking: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help by Amanda Palmer
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- Those who can ask without shame are viewing themselves in collaboration with—rather than in competition with—the world
from The Art of Asking: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help by Amanda Palmer
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- The perception that vulnerability is weakness is the most widely accepted myth about vulnerability and the most dangerous. When we spend our lives pushing away and protecting ourselves from feeling vulnerable or from being perceived as too emotional, we feel contempt when others are less capable or willing to mask feelings, suck it up, and soldier ... See more
from The Art of Asking: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help by Amanda Palmer
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