She seemed just as small-minded, inconsiderate, demanding, unreasonable, and cold when I was edging as when I wasn

juice. Hannah walked into the room when I was in the middle of a long guzzle. I quickly dropped the glass from my mouth and was about to say, ‘I beat Paul!’ when she asked, ‘Are you going to edge?

THE COLLUSION DIAGRAM

The Anatomy of Peace explores the freeing and surprising implications of these ideas in all aspects of life.

“So if we are going to find lasting solutions to difficult conflicts or external wars we find ourselves in,” Yusuf said, “we first need to find our way out of the internal wars that are poisoning our thoughts, feelings, and attitudes toward others. If we can’t put an end to the violence within us, there is no hope for putting an end to the violence

“‘Because most who are trying to put an end to injustice only think of the injustices they believe they themselves have suffered. Which means that they are concerned not really with injustice but with themselves. They hide their focus on themselves behind the righteousness of their outward cause.

“I become an agent of change,” Yusuf continued, “only to the degree that I begin to live to help things go right rather than simply to correct things that are going wrong.

The Anatomy of Peace is the story of how they came together, how they help warring parents and children to come together, and how we too can find our way out of the struggles that weigh us down.

“But you see, no conflict can be solved so long as all parties are convinced they are right.