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The Agony of Eros: On Limerence - By Ava - Bookbear Express
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[L]ove is not like a response to a simple stimulus such as a picture. It is not even a single enduring state, like being cold. It encompasses many things, including: not feeling in love at that moment; hunger; indifference; delight; wanting to be kind; wanting to impress; worrying over the logistics of meetings; lust; awe; surprise; joy; guilt; ang
... See moreintense craving, wanting and needing.
Love is a mystery. When it is there, everything looks heavenly. When it is gone, everything looks simply stale, meaningless. You could not have lived without this woman, and now you cannot live with this woman. And both are authentic states.
To be in love when the outcome is uncertain is an exquisite kind of agony.
For the very state of “being in love” is a state of idealization, where the other person is not really viewed through the eyes of reality.