Ten Infrequently Asked Questions

If you want to understand who someone is, ask: What would make you feel better?

If you want to understand what makes someone proud, ask: What would make you happy to do more often?

If you want to understand someone’s frustration, ask:What rule do you need permission to break?

If you want to understand someone’s identity, ask: Where do you want to belong?

If you want to understand what someone’s yearning for, ask: What is the thing you’re deeply missing?

If you want to understand someone’s values, ask: What does it mean for you to be good?

If you want to understand someone’s dreams, ask: How can I help you become the person you want to be?