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Taming the Mammoth: Why You Should Stop Caring What Other People Think
Your Great2,000 Grandfather’s Social Survival Mammoth was central to his ability to endure and thrive. It was simple—keep the mammoth well fed with social approval and pay close attention to its overwhelming fears of nonacceptance, and you’ll be fine.
Tim Urban • Taming the Mammoth: Why You Should Stop Caring What Other People Think
Whatever your situation, there are three steps to getting your mammoth under your control:
Tim Urban • Taming the Mammoth: Why You Should Stop Caring What Other People Think
This doesn’t sound that hard, but it is. It takes some serious reflection to sift through the webs of other people’s thoughts and opinions and figure out who the real you actually is.
Tim Urban • Taming the Mammoth: Why You Should Stop Caring What Other People Think
The mammoth is still with you—it’ll always be with you—but you’ll have an easier time ignoring or overruling it when it speaks up or acts out, because the AV is the alpha dog now. You can start to relish the feeling of being viewed as weird or inappropriate or confusing to people, and society becomes your playground and blank canvas, not something... See more
Tim Urban • Taming the Mammoth: Why You Should Stop Caring What Other People Think
The most obvious way to find the mammoth is to figure out where your fear is—where are you most susceptible to shame or embarrassment?