Strength is overrated
My Weakness Is Strong,
Timothy Ferriss • Tribe of Mentors: Short Life Advice from the Best in the World
For too long, our definition of toughness revolved around a belief that the toughest individuals are ones who have thick skin, fear nothing, constrain any emotional reaction, and hide all signs of vulnerability. In other words, they are callous.
Steve Magness • Do Hard Things
You understand that being emotionally vulnerable is strength.
Linda Hill • Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse, Gaslighting, Codependency and Complex PTSD (6 in 1): MasterClass, Workbook and Guide for Healing from Trauma and Toxic ... and Recover from Unhealthy Relationships)
However, there is not a single piece of empirical data to suggest that vulnerability is associated with weakness. In fact, the opposite is true: acts of courage are impossible without first putting yourself in a vulnerable position.