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The real thing people should be actively looking for is strong emotional connection, as in: to what degree can I share who I am with this person, do they get it , how interested are they in who I am, my feelings and thoughts, can we accommodate each other’s preferences, are we good at talking. Once I asked a very happy couple how they knew they... See more
the agony of eros: dating
So many seekers after love are taught in childhood to feel unworthy, that nobody could love them as they really are, and they construct a false self. In adult life they meet people who fall in love with their false self. But this love does not last. At some point, glimpses of the real self emerge and disappointment comes. Rejected by their chosen
... See morebell hooks • All About Love: New Visions (Love Song to the Nation Book 1)
I ask a client, “How do you love yourself?” I usually get a response that is just as vague. I intend to take this concept and make it very clear how to love yourself on both a cognitive and behavioral level.
Daniel Beaver • Love Yourself: The First Step to a Successful Relationship
💬 How can you become a better lover?
According to Philosopher Alain De Botton, the key to feeling seen doesn’t lie with the other person, but in fact with us and our ability to share who we are.
In this thought-provoking conversation, philosopher Alain de Botton explains why teaching someone... See more
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