some thoughts on friendship
Knowing myself: “How easy is it for me to own what I’m feeling? How often do I practice telling others my real feelings? How often do I ask for what I need?” • New activities: “Do I generate ideas of things to do? Do I extend additional invitations even if others don’t initiate as often as I do?” • Expanding conversation: “How often do I ask though
... See moreShasta Nelson • Frientimacy: How to Deepen Friendships for Lifelong Health and Happiness
My contribution to the advice canon for making friends follows a similar vein: Think of friendship as a tapestry. It starts with its first seams—a meeting at a party, an introduction, a spark at a concert. Sometimes you’re knitting it together, sometimes one person is working overtime, and sometimes you stop and look at what you’ve made and know th
... See moreAaron Edwards • I Followed Common Advice for Making Friends. Then I Learned What It Really Takes.
As Weiner points out, “Friendships almost always happen extremely gradually as a result of shared time and continued effort.” Take things slow and take a genuine interest in people to develop real friendships that can last beyond a few casual lunch dates. It’s normal if you’re feeling a little rusty. “It’s okay for things to be a bit uncomfortable
... See moreDiana Shi • 5 strategies for making friends as a working adult
