Smart Sex: The new self-help book for 2023 with advice on how to have more fun, increase your pleasure and improve your relationships

that alone will revolutionize your sexual wellbeing.

invite you to reframe your understanding of sex, pleasure, desire, and all we believe it to be. Whether single or partnered, you’ll be lead through a process of sexual discovery that focuses less on “what to think” and “how to be better in bed,” and more on working out how and why sex matters to you. Instead of holding lust as the sole inspiration

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, by John Gray, PhD • How to Be a Great Lover and The Great Lover Playbook, by Lou Paget • The Way of the Superior Man, Dear Lover, and Finding God Through Sex, by David Deida • The 7 Principles for Making a Marriage Work, by John Gottman • Kim Anami’s Sexual Salon, KimAnami.com • Jordan Gray’s sex and relatio

7. Exploration, Interpersonal Risk-Taking and Fun Many said that magnificent sex often involves taking risks and exploring.

A healthy sex life is supposed to be frequent, creative, and intense. Therefore the inevitable fact that real people in real long-term relationships cannot and do not act as though they are in the heat of passion all the time causes many people to feel a sense of shame, disappointment, and failure.