
Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm

This explosion of gifting could be the basis of your life, not just a moment of sexual yielding. When you feel sexual lust or desire for any woman, breathe deeply and allow the feeling of desire to magnify. And allow it to magnify more. Don’t let the energy become lodged in your head or genitals, but circulate it throughout your body. Using your br
... See moreDavid Deida • The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition)

When she feels the absolutely trustable nature of your loving—that you are truly with her, committed to loving, and you’re not going to get lost in the self-enclosed spasm of your own pleasurizing—she will begin to trust you with her most vulnerable core.
David Deida • The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire

If you feel a part of your lover unopen, inhale her tension, warm it with the heat of your love-desire, and fill her with your outward thrust of gentle openness. Breathe her entire body as if it were yours. Breathe her body to open, moment by moment, kiss by kiss, thrust by thrust. Stay with her, sometimes still, sometimes savage, feeling into her
... See moreDavid Deida • Blue Truth: A Spiritual Guide to Life & Death and Love & Sex
