Show Him Your Heart

Show your worth not by being demanding and controlling, but by being vulnerable. Share everything you feel, and be willing to flow away from a man if he isn’t demonstrating a willingness to claim, protect, and cherish your heart. “May I share what I feel?” “Yes.” “I feel sad and anxious.” “Oh why?” “Because I really like you, but you’re still datin

me, if she wasn’t into me, I would have been turned off instantly. Healthy masculine men want to feel that the woman they like really likes them too, so don’t play any of those hard to get games to make a man chase you. You’ll get chased by the wrong kinds of men. My wife was as into me as I was to her, and that is what made her willingness to walk

To be claimed by a masculine man, not just in title as ‘his’, but in a man’s heart as ‘his’, a woman must also have feminine self worth. Part of feminine self worth is communicating your needs and feelings vulnerably because you know you are worthy of your needs being met and feelings being cherished. But as discussed in a previous chapter, the oth

Femininity attracts masculine men and will turn such men on. Women who are soft, open, vulnerable, submissive, easy going, and receptive. What I am describing is every woman’s default healed state, but it may be covered up by fear and wounds that keep a woman guarded and controlling.

To get that, what you should be doing is opening your heart from the beginning, and not have sex with a man until he’s fully demonstrated that he cherishes your heart and wants to protect it from harm. Especially harm from himself. “Will this man devotedly help me with my feelings if I share my neediness and fear vulnerably after sex, or will he pu

There are many aspects to their success that I helped them shift. But a huge one was learning how to be vulnerable with men. Expressing their negative (and positive) feelings without any control, taking full responsibility, and being fully in their heart. Right from the start on date number one (and sometimes before the date). Being honest about ho

What is hot is when a woman will do whatever a man wants her to do only when he’s demonstrating devotion to her. Because a devoted man will be considering her needs and her feelings when he tells her to do things. He will listen to what she feels and adjust his leadership appropriately when necessary. Now her submission is communicating her self-wo

A woman in her feminine self worth feels worthy enough to share all of her feelings vulnerably, because she knows her needs and feelings matter. It also means feeling worthy enough to not stay in any interaction or with any man if he doesn’t demonstrate that her feelings matter to him, and doesn’t demonstrate that he’s capable of cherishing those f

This is how simple this can be: Choose to never set boundaries with a man (unless he physically restrains you or continues to follow you around and won’t stop). Instead, you will share everything you feel. If a man demonstrates that he isn’t considering your feelings despite you giving him the opportunity, you tell him you need to be by yourself, a