
Sex When You Don't Feel Like It

The Ethical Slut, Second Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Adventures
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Desire is pleasure in context.
Emily Nagoski Ph.D. • Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

Esther Perel, “the things that nurture love are sometimes the very same ones that flatten desire. . . . Family life wants consistency, repetition, routine; and the erotic thrives on the unpredictable, novelty, and the unexpected.”
Ada Calhoun • Wedding Toasts I'll Never Give
