Sex and the Enneagram
Twos want to be loved for who they are; Threes are concerned they’re more admired than loved; Fours worry there will be no one with the particular ability to love them for what sets them apart as special.
Christopher L. Heuertz • The Sacred Enneagram: Finding Your Unique Path to Spiritual Growth
Clinically, we see this type of situation all of the time. If each member of a couple is overly responsible and self-effacing, their sexual chemistry usually suffers. And such pairings are common, mainly because the underlying personality traits of guilt and responsibility are common. If you put two people with these types of issues together in a r
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