Self-Knowledge (Essay Books)
They are the one who suffer our irritability, gloom, manufactured cheerfulness or our defensive rationalisations. We act unfairly, so they back off and keep a distance. We grow isolated and friendless.
The School of Life • Self-Knowledge (Essay Books)
I am wise not because I know, but because I know I don’t know.
The School of Life • Self-Knowledge (Essay Books)
Feeling offended takes up all our attention. It muddies the waters. We no longer have to pay attention to information that is correct but challenging.
The School of Life • Self-Knowledge (Essay Books)
Entertaining the most extreme consequences can be the best way to finally neuter an otherwise nagging concern. One by one, we should confront the worst, and see that it is, for the most part, very survivable.
The School of Life • Self-Knowledge (Essay Books)
Philosophical Meditation, a practice with the premise that a decisive share of the trouble in our minds comes from thoughts and feelings that have not been untangled, examined and confronted with sufficient attention.
The School of Life • Self-Knowledge (Essay Books)
Or we may feel lost in our career, but be unable to say more than that we wish to ‘do something creative’ or ‘help to make the world a better place’ – plans so vague that they leave us vulnerable to the more robust plans of others.
The School of Life • Self-Knowledge (Essay Books)
Emotional Identity Questionnaire Give a score to each of the statements below, on a scale from 1 to 5: 1 = That’s not true. 2 = That’s not very true, but there’s a glimmer of recognition. 3 = I don’t know – maybe, maybe not. 4 = A bit true, but I have a few reservations. 5 = Yes, that’s true. Self-Love 1. If people knew who I really was deep down,
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How might we still be OK, even if it all fell apart? Entertaining the most extreme consequences can be the best way to finally neuter an otherwise nagging concern. One by one, we should confront the worst, and see that it is, for the most part, very survivable.
The School of Life • Self-Knowledge (Essay Books)
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The School of Life • Self-Knowledge (Essay Books)
If we have sizeable reserves of self-love, we might feel we can afford to admit mistakes and still believe in our basic decency. Yet if our self-love is very fragile, no admission of guilt or error is ever possible; it would sap the last of our limited self-regard.