In his book, “Facilitating Breakthrough,” Adam Kahane writes that the work of facilitation is less about CREATING connection, and more about REMOVING OBSTACLES to connection. I was thinking about Adam’s insight while reading Ruth Whippman’s surprisingly gripping and cogent new book, BOYMOM, and the many blockages to connection for people who... See more

Life isn’t going to coddle you. No one is. You have to fight—internally and externally. And emotions? You confront them. Instead of suppressing them, you process and master them. Open your hands—because a closed fist traps the mind in perpetual combat. It’s time to heal the broken boy inside you. Put in the work, stop... See more