
Radically Condensed Instructions for Being Just as You Are

When we realize our true self is nothing other than present-moment experience, we are free to love whatever is happening, regardless of whether we like it!
J Matthews • Radically Condensed Instructions for Being Just as You Are
The fact is, we don’t experience the mystery of life by ‘working through’ our perturbation. We just experience it. We simply decide to experience life, without judgment or expectation. A moment’s lapse is a moment’s lapse. The reason our occasional, alienating thoughts and feelings bother us is because we think we should be bothered by them.
J Matthews • Radically Condensed Instructions for Being Just as You Are
Like the problem of simple substances in physics – each particle of dissatisfaction turns out to be another compound. Dissatisfaction can be broken down into ever smaller particles. And infinitesimal dissatisfaction turns out to be as vexing a problem as infinite dissatisfaction was. We find that we end up scrubbing our hands all day like Lady Macb
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Wakefulness or enlightenment can be reasonably defined as appreciating the mystery of life in the present moment, while knowing it is the only 'thing' there is. Wakefulness’ opposite – the dissatisfaction brought about by reactive emotions and alienating desire – can be reasonably defined as the futile attempt to ‘get something out of life.’
J Matthews • Radically Condensed Instructions for Being Just as You Are
If we want to appreciate the mystery of life, it is essential to evade the compulsion of our desires by understanding that there does not need to be anything else in our current situations. There is no greater feeling, state, or condition that we have to achieve. There is no lesser or more limited feeling, state, or condition that we have to be lib
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We can be awake and intimately in touch with the mystery of the present moment. This is a lifestyle choice, not a goal. When something appears to take us out of present-moment experience, we can question it rather than follow it with credulity. We don’t have to let it hoodwink us with the promise that we will be in touch with the mystery of present
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The fact is, we can't improve and improve, and finally get to ourselves. It won’t work and it’s not necessary. We are already ourselves.
J Matthews • Radically Condensed Instructions for Being Just as You Are
Appreciation of the mystery of life is not another state that we have to attain. It is merely the knowledge and acceptance that there is really nowhere else we have to go, nothing else we have to do. Now, there are feeling-states which I associate with this freedom and this appreciation of the mystery of life. They are a kind-of pervasive, loving p
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