the truth is, most of us have no idea what we’re doing. we just wake up, drink whatever version of coffee our current personality is into, overthink everything, and hope we’re accidentally building a life we don’t hate. figuring out what you want isn’t some life-changing epiphany — it’s a slow process of eliminating what drains you and chasing what... See more

sometimes the clearest path forward is through the side door. instead of hunting for a “life purpose,” try following the things that spark curiosity — even if they seem random. if you’re obsessed with old houses, watch renovation videos. if you can’t stop thinking about scent theory or 90s music videos or mushroom recipes, indulge it. don’t ask... See more

what do I envy about others and what does that envy teach me?