Positivity Bias

positivity in their home. “See to it that others have warmth and positivity,” urged the Rebbe, “and as a result, your lives will be warm and positive, as well.”427 Helping others is the most effective form of “self-help.”

Think about three people in your life: a) Someone you are close with, b) someone you work with, and c) someone you find challenging but must interact with. Write down three positive things for each person: a) A compliment, b) some sort of empowerment, and c) something unique about them that you appreciate. Try to remember these positive aspects of

“While it is obvious from your report that you are devoted to your mission, I do not perceive that you find joy in your work.”421

“Reflect upon the fact that you are a finite creature whom the Creator has given the privilege to be bound with the Infinite through the mitzvot. If you keep in mind that your soul is a part of G-d, how can you not be constantly joyful?”

go of socializing with individuals who are negative or cynical, or who make you feel inadequate, insecure, drain your energy, or bring out the worst in you. Even if an interaction with such a person seems enjoyable and exciting in the moment, sense how you feel afterward.

don’t enjoy for a few years, perhaps, but there will come a time when it starts to build resentment. We are programmed to pursue contentment;

“A good neighbor [is paramount]!”

“Make it a point to meet upbeat, positive people.... Look for and interact with people of good will at work.”

In all of these stories, the Rebbe consistently expresses the liberating truth that we only reach the ultimate joy and fulfillment in life when our passion and profession intersect, and where our source and sense of purpose, productivity, pleasure, and profit converge and coalesce. If you do what you love, you will love what you do.