Let your life reflect your true self . Lean into the quirks in your style. Let your interests roam free. Be passionate about what you love, about who you love. Lean into your weird. Say what you want to say. Do what you want to do. Feed your curiosity. Befriend the people you actually align with, instead of “cool” people that hold social signal... See more

Resist commodifying or typing yourself to get attention.

You’re not a girlboss , a clean girl , or such a Pisces , you’re you, and there’s no one else quite like you. Those kinds of labels can be fun, I guess, but ultimately are limiting. It’s best to take an expansive view of the self. You don’t have to type yourself, or fit in with a specific

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Go buy trinkets to put up on your desk, stick some charms on your bag, or keep yapping about an artist you like. Most people will find it annoying, but it makes you, you. All of your interests make up you.