On Children
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Saved by Yoshio Goto and
On Children
Saved by Yoshio Goto and
Your children and your children’s children will thank you. CHAPTER TEN Out of the Mouths of Babes Ask the young.
Children are made of awe. We have much to learn from them, but we seldom aim to. When we encounter the freedom of a child, we can choose to participate in their liberation or we can grow to resent the freedom in them.
Parents with children are like prayer leaders with kohanim. Our children need to be filled with love so that they in turn can love others. If they are not loved, they enter the world as empty vessels, devoid of the one thing that matters most: the capacity to love others.
You are paralyzed by joy—yes, of course—and something else. A peripheral pain. You fear that you were destined to mess this thing up, this mothering thing. That no matter how many books you read on conscious child-rearing or how diligently you practice mindfulness, you are bound to get lost in the woods of parenting, dragging your poor kid behind y
... See moreEstelle was thinking about another author now, one who almost a hundred years ago wrote that your children aren’t your children, they’re the sons and daughters of life’s longing for itself.