In Zen, there’s a saying: When you point at another, three fingers point back at you. What you see in others - especially what triggers or disgusts you - is often an unrecognized fragment of yourself. Judgment reveals where you are still asleep. Every time you condemn another, you are projecting a shadow you have not yet integrated. The moment you... See more

“Am I... a shit talker? Do I talk more shit than most? Do I pretend that what I’m good at is ANALYZING HUMANS when what I’m really good at is PROTECTING MYSELF FROM MY OWN SHAME?”