Notes on Not Posting
- I care less what people think of me.
- I make more phone calls.
Notes on Not Posting
Without the micro-dopamine, real-world pleasures register more.
Notes on Not Posting
You find out who wants to talk to you and who just wants you to entertain them. True friends text you, the others just wait.
Notes on Not Posting
Irritability and envy go down. The feed is a ragebait firehose and a comparison machine. You always knew this, but you forgot.
Notes on Not Posting
You stop thinking in posts. Thoughts return to conversation.
Notes on Not Posting
You realize how much of your personality is reactive to a timeline instead of rooted in your own characters and story. Past a point, posting is more identity construction than expression.
Notes on Not Posting
I feel simultaneously more invisible and more mysterious. Fewer people are watching. Fewer people can pin down exactly what I’m doing right now. Not posting has the air of reclaiming privacy.