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experiences. We can perform a kind of exorcism by exposing them to the cold light of day where no deep shadows are cast, and to the hearts and minds of others. Invariably, we find that the tales are a mirror, reflecting a common thread in the lives of both reader and writer. That’s how the cleansing magic works, and it’s a powerful realisation. I b

Pain is interesting; it is a doorway, and there is usually treasure hidden behind that pain.

I was also relearning the very painful lesson that full healing never really comes. I wanted healing to mean that I would go back to being who I was before I was abused—like it hadn’t happened. But the scars from Larry’s abuse were visible to the whole world. They would never not be part of my public identity now.

and secretly I hope I have the bruise for the rest of my life.