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Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It
“Your offer is very generous, I’m sorry, that just doesn’t work for me”
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Matthew Carey added 19d ago
We’ve found that you can usually express “No” four times before actually saying the word.
from Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It by Tahl Raz
Matthew Carey added 19d ago
people fall into three broad categories. Some people are Accommodators; others—like me—are basically Assertive; and the rest are data-loving Analysts.
from Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It by Tahl Raz
Matthew Carey added 19d ago
“I’m sorry but I’m afraid I just can’t do that.”
from Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It by Tahl Raz
Matthew Carey added 19d ago
“I’m sorry, no”
from Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It by Tahl Raz
Matthew Carey added 19d ago
Tactical Empathy.
from Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It by Tahl Raz
Matthew Carey added 19d ago
Identify your counterpart’s negotiating style. Once you know whether they are Accommodator, Assertive, or Analyst, you’ll know the correct way to approach them. Prepare, prepare, prepare. When the pressure is on, you don’t rise to the occasion; you fall to your highest level of preparation. So design an ambitious but legitimate goal and then game o
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Matthew Carey added 19d ago
Set your target price (your goal). Set your first offer at 65 percent of your target price. Calculate three raises of decreasing increments (to 85, 95, and 100 percent). Use lots of empathy and different ways of saying “No” to get the other side to counter before you increase your offer. When calculating the final amount, use precise, nonround numb
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Matthew Carey added 19d ago
Threats delivered without anger but with “poise”—that is, confidence and self-control—are great tools. Saying, “I’m sorry that just doesn’t work for me,” with poise, works.
from Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It by Tahl Raz
Matthew Carey added 19d ago