Miles (@milesfarmer.bsky.social)
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Miles (@milesfarmer.bsky.social)
Secret 8 Here I had been going around thinking my friends and acquaintances were living morally upstanding, partnered, educated, organic lives. I thought we were like Tennyson’s Ulysses in middle age, “Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will.” I thought we were made of stern stuff, stuff that wouldn’t give way to the chaos of midlife love an
... See moreyou didn’t want to tell me while I was living with Mom, I can understand that, I guess. But I’m twenty-five. You could have told me the real story when I visited you last fall. You could have told me anytime.”
And I feel like maybe I have no idea. That I’ve got to forty-five years of age and I really don’t know. And people talk about it all the time like it’s, you know, something real, something you can touch—like when we talk about love, we’re all talking about the same thing. But we’re not, are we? It isn’t a real thing. It isn’t anything. And sometime
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