Maybe you’re not ready either
can you love without losing yourself?
open.substack.comThe Paradox
At the heart of avoidant attachment is a paradox. We want connection—we yearn for it. We dream of the kind of love that is deep and lasting, the kind that provides comfort, safety, and understanding. But when it’s within our reach, we push it away. We sabotage our relationships, often without even realizing we’re doing it. We pull back... See more
At the heart of avoidant attachment is a paradox. We want connection—we yearn for it. We dream of the kind of love that is deep and lasting, the kind that provides comfort, safety, and understanding. But when it’s within our reach, we push it away. We sabotage our relationships, often without even realizing we’re doing it. We pull back... See more
Let’s tell the truth:
Some avoidant partners aren’t just scared.
They’re reckless.
They create emotional bonds they never intended to hold.
And when it gets real—they vanish.
Not because they’re lost little souls.
But because they’re comfortable being... See more
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