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Making Normal Conversations Better
Typically, the best conversations are ones that possess some degree of spontaneity. And you can encourage spontaneity. If something floats across your mind that’s unexpected, like a conversational tangent jogs a memory or idea you didn’t foresee appearing, make it part of the conversation. “For some reason, this makes me think of [x]” is fine. Simi
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rob hardy added 4mo ago
- Don’t Leave the Silly Out of the Serious, or the Serious out of the Silly
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Agalia Tan added 1mo ago
- You cannot force good conversations to happen. You have to allow and invite them
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Agalia Tan added 1mo ago
- “Say more” and “care to elaborate” are magical phrases. You can also repeat what they said. “Work has been crazy lately.” “Work has been crazy lately?” That can do a lot. The question “why is that important to you,” while more intense, can get you really far, really fast, if you sense a mood of openness, especially if you learn to ask it casually.
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Dani Murphy added 10d ago