Love Yourself and Let the Other Person Have It Your Way

Can you be positive in spite of what your mind is telling you?

The First Breakthrough ActionLet go of your non-love feelings. Pay attention to what you're saying, thinking and doing. Watch all the time. Stay awake to what's happening. Be on the lookout all the time. When you see some non-love thought, you stop it. When you see some non-love feeling, you stop it. When you see you're taking some non-love action,

That kind of so-called love will get you in trouble. People will drain you because you're looking for something in return. You're looking to put yourself up in the process and therefore they'll pull you down.

Love everyone equally. Your ability to love everyone equally is a tremendous yardstick for checking yourself and checking your growth in true love. To test your own state of love, look at your enemies. If you don't want to go that far, look at strangers. Examine your attitude toward strangers.Your goal is equal-mindedness toward all beings, loving

Acceptance is another good definition of love. When you love people, you accept them they way they are.

I assume you decided to love yourself. That's a wise decision.Could you let go of disapproving of yourself? Could you let go of disapproving of yourself, right now, in this moment? Go along with me. Before you can love yourself, you have to let go of all that negative, disapproval energy. To make room for love you have to let go of the non-love.So,

You realize your lovingness when you let go of the non-loving feelings. How do you do that? It is very simple. It's just a decision. Can you let go of the non-loving feelings? Yes, you can. Let go of the non-loving feelings and discover you've been all loving all along.

So, now you have a decision to make. I'm going to be positive and send approval to this person or I'm going to disapprove of them and get nowhere fast.

How does beating yourself up or disapproving of yourself help you? Does it get you an answer? Does it solve your problem? Does it give you a solution? Does it show you what to do about the situation? It certainly does not. Disapproving of yourself, beating yourself up, does not help you, not one little bit, ever. Do you see that?And, who's doing it