Look closely at the most embarrassing details and amplify them.
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Look closely at the most embarrassing details and amplify them.
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The most obvious way to find the mammoth is to figure out where your fear is—where are you most susceptible to shame or embarrassment?
end meta • Why You Should Stop Caring What Other People Think (Taming the Mammoth)
a huge part of creating the life you want is crossing your personal boundaries of cringe and breaking the walls of embarrassment that limit your choices
The big picture is hiding in the details.
Scott Adams
I’m not trying to get into your business, but you likely have shame, fear, or insecurity about something and put forth a lot of effort trying to hide it.
Kendra Adachi • The Lazy Genius Way
As a rule of thumb, if we have an urge to leave out a detail because it makes us uncomfortable or requires even more clarification to explain away, those are exactly the details we must share.
Annie Duke • Thinking in Bets: Making Smarter Decisions When You Don't Have All the Facts
do less have fun be weirder
take it for granted that at some point in the course of human events you will see a reason to put increasing amounts of your balls online.