Listening to shame | Brené Brown | TED
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Listening to shame | Brené Brown | TED
For men, shame is not a bunch of competing, conflicting expectations. Shame is one,
do not be perceived as what? Weak.
Listening to shame | Brené Brown | TED
For women, shame is, do it all, do it perfectly and never let them see you sweat.
Listening to shame | Brené Brown | TED
shame is the gremlin who says, "Uh, uh. You're not good enough. You never finished that MBA. Your wife left you. I know your dad really wasn't in Luxembourg, he was in Sing Sing. I know those things that happened to you growing up. I know you don't think that you're pretty, smart, talented or powerful enough. I know your dad never paid attention,
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Jungian analysts call shame the swampland of the soul
Listening to shame | Brené Brown | TED
"I love what say about shame,
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I'm curious why you didn't mention men."
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And I said, "I don't study men."
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And he said, "That's convenient."
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(Laughter)
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And I said, "Why?"
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And he said, "Because
you say to reach out,
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tell our story,
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be vulnerable.
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But you see those books you just signed
for my wife and my three... See more
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I'm curious why you didn't mention men."
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And I said, "I don't study men."
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And he said, "That's convenient."
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(Laughter)
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And I said, "Why?"
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And he said, "Because
you say to reach out,
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tell our story,
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be vulnerable.
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But you see those books you just signed
for my wife and my three... See more