4. James Baldwin’s “Notes of a Native Son” — an essay where family grief, Harlem, and American racism intersect into a sharp and uncomfortable clarity that’s impossible to ignore.

• Therapy is a deeply human encounter that thrives on authenticity, empathy, and presence rather than just technique.


• Therapists must embrace their own vulnerabilities and uncertainties to foster healing relationships.


• The therapeutic relationship is a gift that both parties give and receive, creating a space of growth and self-discovery.


• Each patient’s

1. Love you sons as they are, not as you wish they were. You made mistakes as teen just like I did—and you probably worried about how your father would react. Regardless of how your dad handled your shortcomings, love and accept your son as he is. Never forget that he is a masterpiece in the making.




2. Surround your son with other good men. Every boy