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Landmark study on 11,196 couples pinpoints what dating apps get so wrong
Jacob Falkovich says that single people often seek out similarity when complementarity is what makes relationships cohere long-term. It’s a great observation. But how to operationalize it? Maybe: look for someone you can’t initially understand, but also don’t feel like walking away from.
Sasha Chapin • Getting married soon
Dating has shifted from primarily non-selecting situations, like real-life community or shared context, to selecting up front through profiles & photos.
This has scrambled people’s intuition around the difference between filtering & selection. You used to meet someone organically and evaluate compatibility over time,... See more
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