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Kinda Nice
Do not confuse with compassionate. A compassionate person may be what we call nice and polite, but compassion does not try to be nice and polite. Nice and polite come from conditioning. Compassion comes from the Heart and our shared connectedness.
Cheri Huber • There Is Nothing Wrong with You: Going Beyond Self-Hate
“Not being nice may look promising at first, but in the long run it can destroy the very environment it needs for its own success.”
Eric Barker • Barking Up the Wrong Tree: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Success Is (Mostly) Wrong
Too often, the people we ask for feedback are nice but not kind. Kind people will tell you things a nice person will not. A kind person will tell you that you have spinach on your teeth. A nice person won’t because it’s uncomfortable. A kind person will tell us what holds us back, even when it’s uncomfortable. A nice person avoids giving us critica
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