A couple thoughts on this: I’ve hosted 250+ events for thousands of people, and I’ve been able to sharpen my social instincts with a lot of reps. Most people who give you a “bad vibe” are just extremely awkward, and you’re feeling their internal discomfort when you talk to them.... See more

what if we’re only good at brief encounters?

thinking back, every time I felt instantly attracted to someone it was this feeling of “I can trust this person right away”

What’s your biggest new person red flag? Something that when you see it, you know you want nothing to do with this person that you just met.