Came across this gem from the great Hanif Kureishi —
"One falls in love, and then learns, for the duration, that one is at the mercy of someone else's childhood."
And I thought: someone else’s childhood and also one’s own.
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frag.mentsofmy.soulinstagram.comTrauma, whether it is the result of something done to you or something you yourself have done, almost always makes it difficult to engage in intimate relationships. After you have experienced something so unspeakable, how do you learn to trust yourself or anyone else again? Or, conversely, how can you surrender to an intimate relationship after you
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I think Love is an extension of the self. When we love people we invite them to connect to part of our identity. Likewise we allow ourselves into theirs. To a Mother, her children are in part, like an extension of herself. One of the difficulties of parenthood (that I have observed) is to what extent one self-identifies with one’s children and to
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