Jennifer Lopez Tells Nikki Glaser How a Turbulent Summer Changed Her

LOPEZ: It feels lonely, unfamiliar, scary. It feels sad. It feels desperate. But when you sit in those feelings and go, “These things are not going to kill me,” it’s like actually, I am capable of joy and happiness all by myself. Being in a relationship doesn’t define me. I can’t be looking for happiness in other people. I have to have happiness wi... See more

And so, right away—and it’s this thing of being young— you’re resilient and optimistic. Things haven’t really quite knocked you all the way on your ass yet.