it resonates | Are.na
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it resonates | Are.na
“Resonance” is the name for the expansive experience of attachment. We’ve lost something, feeling alienated in all directions, but what makes alienation so painful and depressing is that we feel this lost reverberation of attachment, longing for what connects us back to our childhood moments of being cared for.
Not belonging can manifest in different degrees of intensity. It can be momentary or subtle, like feeling slightly out of place at a party where you only know one person. Or it can be tenacious and upsetting, like the ongoing sense of anxiety that exists around our career, relationship status, or bank account balance. Or not belonging can be system
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