In Open Defense of Transactionality
Can love be both selfless and reciprocal, or does the desire for return inherently corrupt its purity?
the reciprocity paradox: if love seeks to be returned, is it love—or the desire to be loved?
And yet, no matter what bravery we show to the world, most of us have recurring doubts about our worth. We worry that we’re not desirable enough, good enough, successful enough. We fear we’re not enough, period. Intellectually, we may appreciate that loving ourselves would give us a firm foundation, one from which we could extend love out into the
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