I bit the bullet and bought an Nvidia Tesla P4 for my server. I'm SO glad I did. (More in comments)
ell PowerEdge R420 1U Rackmount server
Dual Xeon E5-2430 @ 2.20GHz
96.0 GB RAM
250gb Samsung 840 Evo (Boot drive)
500gb Samsung 850 Evo (Blue Iris "New/Alerts" drive and Plex's Database)
Dell PERC Raid controller with 3 20TB Seagate IronWolf Pro in a RAID-0 (Blue Iris clip archive)
Running Windows 10 Pro
Serving up Blue Iris, Plex, NTP for my network, and
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