Change is a certain difference that we can make without dismantling the paradigm the difference is being made in.

In the positive part of reality, a person successfully manipulates the world to get what they think they want. In the negative part of reality, a person suffers because what they want eludes them, and they do everything possible to avoid that suffering. The whole reality is, however, based on the one thought that something in them is missing or

We sense that there is some sort of spirit that loves the birds and animals and the ants perhaps the same one that gave a radiance to you in your mother’s womb. Is it logical that you would be walking around entirely orphaned now? The truth is that you turned away yourself, and decided to go into the darkness alone. Now, you are tangled up in

When I introduce people to the idea that our Identities shape our realities, I usually do not get much opposition. In fact, people are quick to offer me thoughts they have about themselves: “I need more confidence,” “I am lazy,” “I am a sensitive empath that takes on everyone else’s energy,” or “I am bad with money.” Statements like these are

People who are the first to seek change in their life often feel victimized by others, unhappy, unfairly treated by people, or the systems in which they live. The very thought of taking responsibility or full ownership of the reality in which others are hurting them gives rise to defensiveness and protest. As if feeling hurt isn’t enough, being

Oneness is a deeply creative state in which our consciousness stops holding on to any of its creations—including the thoughts about Self—and relaxes into itself, into everything, into God. This fertile and rich state is the unity of all things with you and you with all things. Oneness is your true nature. A conscious state of oneness while being

She had no choice in the matter, she was helpless, no input, no ability to make any difference or stand up for herself. But she did receive something in this moment. Something, my guess, her psyche wanted more than money, more than life itself: another chance to be faced with horrible unfairness and fight against it, now as a grown woman. She had

Let’s take a person who, as a child, was hurt at a time when they had no ability to defend themselves or exert their power. They were, at one point, a victim of an emotional or physical perpetrator. As a result, they assume the Identity of someone who is powerless and vulnerable to forces outside of themselves: the Identity of a victim. A person,

Wanting to let go of suffering in your problem area is only half of the equation. The other half, and arguably a more important one, is surrendering the part of negotiation where you gain something in the Identity-based world. Your attachment to what you think is working equally binds you to the reality in which you are not free.